Alright, so I'm not a firm believer in routines and gimmicks. By routines, I mean a set form of what to do each night when you guys go out. I don't have a problem with people using routines and gimmicks, but I do have a problem with how people are using them and how these techniques are utilized in field. I see a lot of rookie mistakes when it comes to pure gaming. Gaming should feel, look, and be natural. Using routines doesn't necessarily count anybody out from being natural, but it's something about guys I see who use routines incorrectly that pisses me off. Or, sometimes, guys take things out of context when it comes to game. I want to see guys become naturals. Here is my take on ways to become natural without being natural:
So, I'm a natural in field when it comes to attraction, but I do get off my game at times. I don't rely on any type of set standards when it comes to game (except the idea of social proof, DHV, etc.). Here are rookie mistakes that I see consistently that involves routines and gimmicks:
1) The idea of peacocking gone wrong. Yes, I've been seeing this more and more. To me, this is a routine. Like I said, there's nothing wrong with peacocking, but seriously; please do not go overboard with this. To me, it gives me a perception of lower value and when I do ask girls opinions about how guys dress in the stupid kind of "peacock" manner, they find it low value. Peacocking is a way of expressing your inner game and values to the environment you're in; not showing how stupid you could look for a fashion show.
2) Warm up approaches... There is no such fuckin' thing. Once you're in a venue, you're there for two reasons: having fun and getting pulls. This is a routine, by which, is a set form of what you do every time you go out. So recently, there was one of my friends who "thinks" he can pull chicks. However, if you get blown out and tell me it's a warm up approach, why is she the fuckin' hottest girl in the venue? Never give that bullshit. Warm up approaches is just an excuse for getting rejected. Solution for this is to move on and look for more targets and then come back. Pretty much like shopping.
3) Quantity over quality. I am really fuckin' tired of seeing guys get five hundred numbers, but getting only one ring pick up on the phone. I know some of you guys like to get as many numbers as possible, but it's the worst routine I have seen yet. Why get so many numbers and waste valuable time? Getting twenty numbers from ugly ass girls doesn't make you good at pick up. It makes you good at getting rotten pussy.
4) Having to prove something each night. Alright, so recently, I had a good talk with a fellow Philly lair cat. Well, more like last month. He told me that whenever he sees someone with a hot chick, he has to compete. To me, this is beta behavior. Being alpha is being a guy who knows that he can get whatever he wants and that he knows he doesn't have to compete with anybody. Do not make this mistake in field.
So anyways, these were things that I've been seeing recently when I was in field. I hope nobody ever make these mistakes in field because it is VERY sad to watch.
Being natural is pretty easy to recognize within yourself. If anything is comfortable to you, it's natural. If it isn't, make it natural. Once you know you're natural, your inner game is tight. At least, that's what I believe.
"Be like water, my friend." -Bruce Lee.
Become natural.
-Hengman.
P.S. Stupid cats are having sex and it's so fuckin' loud. It's fuckin' 4:52AM right now.
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
FR: Recovery
I don't know what the rules are on double posting here but I have to pour my brains out before they explode. If you want to just see the FR then skip ahead a paragraph.
So my game has been stepped up a notch, not so much in quality (which is of course growing) but more in terms of when and where. I think it was Tyler Durden who said: "It's always on" but this is absolutely ridiculous. I don't do another else now except study for school, skateboard and pickup. Everywhere I go now I am opening sets and it's coming off as really high value I think.
So anyways...to the point.
I had last n-closed the HBCuteBrunette and set up a day 2. Unfortunately my last real sarge session was interrupted and I only ended up with one number close since. Anyways HBCuteBrunette flaked on me but I'm not sure what was really going on, I think it was boyfriend problems because she was really non-flakey after she broke up.
Reminder #1: Don't be afraid to BFD.
I was really about to just say "Fuck her, next" because she really wasn't worth it. All of a sudden BAM shes texting IOI's to me like crazy and sets up a day 2 for the evening at starbucks.
I roll in, a little fashionably late and theres a guy and HBPlatinumBlonde (she got flaked on earlier so I told her to come chill with us) sitting with her. I soon discovered (after shaking his hand and running a little AMOG stuff on him) that he had number closed HBCuteBrunette earlier that day. That was all I needed and from then on I totally stole the frame for the rest of the night. The only time he got a word in was when he was talking directly to me. Later on my wing would show up, invited by HBPlatinumBlonde and super AMOG him with this exact line:
Wing: Hey, are you two cousins or something? You look the same!
HBCuteBrunette: OMG! NO! Hides face and giggles like crazy.
They didn't talk for the rest of the night.
Now normally my wing is horrible with game because he has horrible AA but when his skips the opener hes a pure A-Game natural and I have a real hard time competing with him. WE don't try and compete but when we can't isolate and we both got our targets in set it's pretty tough. Today however, was a different day and I am positive I out gamed him.
One problem persisted however...I had over negged HBCuteBrunette, this is a problem I had been having lately but had been getting better with.
Reminder #2: Don't neg unless it is needed.
I wasn't sure how to recover and my game was starting to dissolve until we went up to get drinks.
Shadow5a: Hey, HB6?
It really hurts me to call her an HB6, she's an amazing girl, but it's just the truth.
HB6: Oh wow, hey how's it going? I haven't seen you in so long!
Now I didn't think I was going to get any preselection AS' from her but she really DHV'd herself in front of my target. She showed me active IOI's and as I ran a little subtle game on her she invited me to go check out her new car. I figured if I had any chance to recover, this was it, leave for five minutes.
HBCuteBrunette couldn't see the car so she had no idea that we just chilled and talked but I could tell she thought otherwise.
Reminder #3: Don't be afraid to leave the set.
I bid goodbye to her, strolled back in and when my wing showed I performed my first PUA inspired bounce and HBCuteBrunette was punching my arm giggling. I never realized how powerful the bounce was until now, I was just practicing but it was very useful. This way I could arrange seating so we isolated our targets as well.
So much more to this day than is here but this post is already too long so these are just the highlights. At the end of the day I walked her home and took my first profile picture:
Shadow5a: Here I want a picture with you
HBCuteBrunette: Oh but I look like shit!
Shadow5a: Bullshit come here gorgeous Takes picture
HBCuteBrunette: What do you want a picture for?
Shadow5a: Well I need something to jack off to later silly!
HBCuteBrunette: Giggles hysterically
Shadow5a: What? I always masturbate to pictures of myself!
HBCuteBrunette: Laughs like crazy
Reminder #4: Go for a k-close when BT is spiking
Well thanks guys I'm out,
Shadow5a
So my game has been stepped up a notch, not so much in quality (which is of course growing) but more in terms of when and where. I think it was Tyler Durden who said: "It's always on" but this is absolutely ridiculous. I don't do another else now except study for school, skateboard and pickup. Everywhere I go now I am opening sets and it's coming off as really high value I think.
So anyways...to the point.
I had last n-closed the HBCuteBrunette and set up a day 2. Unfortunately my last real sarge session was interrupted and I only ended up with one number close since. Anyways HBCuteBrunette flaked on me but I'm not sure what was really going on, I think it was boyfriend problems because she was really non-flakey after she broke up.
Reminder #1: Don't be afraid to BFD.
I was really about to just say "Fuck her, next" because she really wasn't worth it. All of a sudden BAM shes texting IOI's to me like crazy and sets up a day 2 for the evening at starbucks.
I roll in, a little fashionably late and theres a guy and HBPlatinumBlonde (she got flaked on earlier so I told her to come chill with us) sitting with her. I soon discovered (after shaking his hand and running a little AMOG stuff on him) that he had number closed HBCuteBrunette earlier that day. That was all I needed and from then on I totally stole the frame for the rest of the night. The only time he got a word in was when he was talking directly to me. Later on my wing would show up, invited by HBPlatinumBlonde and super AMOG him with this exact line:
Wing: Hey, are you two cousins or something? You look the same!
HBCuteBrunette: OMG! NO! Hides face and giggles like crazy.
They didn't talk for the rest of the night.
Now normally my wing is horrible with game because he has horrible AA but when his skips the opener hes a pure A-Game natural and I have a real hard time competing with him. WE don't try and compete but when we can't isolate and we both got our targets in set it's pretty tough. Today however, was a different day and I am positive I out gamed him.
One problem persisted however...I had over negged HBCuteBrunette, this is a problem I had been having lately but had been getting better with.
Reminder #2: Don't neg unless it is needed.
I wasn't sure how to recover and my game was starting to dissolve until we went up to get drinks.
Shadow5a: Hey, HB6?
It really hurts me to call her an HB6, she's an amazing girl, but it's just the truth.
HB6: Oh wow, hey how's it going? I haven't seen you in so long!
Now I didn't think I was going to get any preselection AS' from her but she really DHV'd herself in front of my target. She showed me active IOI's and as I ran a little subtle game on her she invited me to go check out her new car. I figured if I had any chance to recover, this was it, leave for five minutes.
HBCuteBrunette couldn't see the car so she had no idea that we just chilled and talked but I could tell she thought otherwise.
Reminder #3: Don't be afraid to leave the set.
I bid goodbye to her, strolled back in and when my wing showed I performed my first PUA inspired bounce and HBCuteBrunette was punching my arm giggling. I never realized how powerful the bounce was until now, I was just practicing but it was very useful. This way I could arrange seating so we isolated our targets as well.
So much more to this day than is here but this post is already too long so these are just the highlights. At the end of the day I walked her home and took my first profile picture:
Shadow5a: Here I want a picture with you
HBCuteBrunette: Oh but I look like shit!
Shadow5a: Bullshit come here gorgeous Takes picture
HBCuteBrunette: What do you want a picture for?
Shadow5a: Well I need something to jack off to later silly!
HBCuteBrunette: Giggles hysterically
Shadow5a: What? I always masturbate to pictures of myself!
HBCuteBrunette: Laughs like crazy
Reminder #4: Go for a k-close when BT is spiking
Well thanks guys I'm out,
Shadow5a
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
FR: First Close
Alright so I'm making progress over the bullshit with my closing, heres the report:
So me and my wing were feeling the urge to go out and sarge hardcore, our plans to go to a party earlier was ruined so we decided we'd hit the movie theater (being minors and all).
The whole state discussion (see the earlier post) has had me hooked on the idea and all week I've been wired. I think I only had two mellow days so far since TJ introduced the idea of 100% to me, that coupled with my own theory of PMA created this: 100% PMA strolling into the theater like my fucking dad owned it or some shit. Alright no game inside, we got tickets and headed outdoors to search.
My wing is still have AA problems so the two set we walk by, some HB7 with platinum blond hair and HB8 a cute brunette I tell him to just stroll with me, I'll handle it.
Shadow5a: Hey, do you think this guy looks 18?
HBPlatinum: Uh...fghjkuivhji
Shadow5a: Because we just went in to get tickets and he got ID'd
HBPlatinum: Oh, what movie are you guy's going to see? I took this as an IOI
At this point HBPlatinum was like..staring at me, and I just realized why.
HBPlatinum: Don't I know you from somewhere?
Shadow5a: Oh Ya....puts on a enlightened look...Your Taylor right?
HBPlatinum: Ya, your Peter right?
skip forward about 5 minutes, the girls didn't have money to get in or something so we told them that our friends were sneaking in and they could come with.
HBCuteBrunette: So are we going to your movie?
Shadow5a: Yeah definitely, go with my friends and we'll open the doors for you
This is were me and my wing screwed up. They went into the theater before us and ruined our plans to isolate them. The coolest thing ever happened though, the friends we snuck in to the show thought that this whole sarging thing was bullshit. As I sat down Mike leaned over and whispered "Hey did you guys just pick those girls up?" I just said "Ya" and leaned back in my seat with the biggest grin on my face possible.
Anyways, when the movie was over we just walked out, figuring they would follow. Problem was they did but they just said "bye" and walked straight off.
I was kinda pissed because I was ready to walk up to HBCuteBrunette and close her but they just took off.
A day later I get two messages on Nexopia from these girls. That's where I managed to set up a day 2 and #close HBCuteBrunette.
This is how I closed:
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:16 am
Subject: Re (38): No Subject
haha
come on,
YOUR SHY
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:22 am
Subject: Re (39): No Subject
I am not!
I'll tell you in person tommorow at starbucks
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:23 am
Subject: Re (40): No Subject
o rly?
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:24 am
Subject: Re (41): No Subject
ya better give me your number just in case
you got texting?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:25 am
Subject: Re (42): No Subject
no, i don't :imslow:
*gives number* of course i do.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:29 am
Subject: Re (43): No Subject
oh you little smart ass ahaha
you and my sister would get along just fine
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I also recorded the whole series of messages. I would like some critique on my messaging game for those who have time but it's fairly long so I'll stick it in a comment on this post.
And that's how I got my first number close after learning about pickup. I have a feeling she's going to flake because it's the day after but If I get the Day 2 I'll FR it and grab some pictures too!
Thanks guys I'm out,
Shadow5a
So me and my wing were feeling the urge to go out and sarge hardcore, our plans to go to a party earlier was ruined so we decided we'd hit the movie theater (being minors and all).
The whole state discussion (see the earlier post) has had me hooked on the idea and all week I've been wired. I think I only had two mellow days so far since TJ introduced the idea of 100% to me, that coupled with my own theory of PMA created this: 100% PMA strolling into the theater like my fucking dad owned it or some shit. Alright no game inside, we got tickets and headed outdoors to search.
My wing is still have AA problems so the two set we walk by, some HB7 with platinum blond hair and HB8 a cute brunette I tell him to just stroll with me, I'll handle it.
Shadow5a: Hey, do you think this guy looks 18?
HBPlatinum: Uh...fghjkuivhji
Shadow5a: Because we just went in to get tickets and he got ID'd
HBPlatinum: Oh, what movie are you guy's going to see? I took this as an IOI
At this point HBPlatinum was like..staring at me, and I just realized why.
HBPlatinum: Don't I know you from somewhere?
Shadow5a: Oh Ya....puts on a enlightened look...Your Taylor right?
HBPlatinum: Ya, your Peter right?
skip forward about 5 minutes, the girls didn't have money to get in or something so we told them that our friends were sneaking in and they could come with.
HBCuteBrunette: So are we going to your movie?
Shadow5a: Yeah definitely, go with my friends and we'll open the doors for you
This is were me and my wing screwed up. They went into the theater before us and ruined our plans to isolate them. The coolest thing ever happened though, the friends we snuck in to the show thought that this whole sarging thing was bullshit. As I sat down Mike leaned over and whispered "Hey did you guys just pick those girls up?" I just said "Ya" and leaned back in my seat with the biggest grin on my face possible.
Anyways, when the movie was over we just walked out, figuring they would follow. Problem was they did but they just said "bye" and walked straight off.
I was kinda pissed because I was ready to walk up to HBCuteBrunette and close her but they just took off.
A day later I get two messages on Nexopia from these girls. That's where I managed to set up a day 2 and #close HBCuteBrunette.
This is how I closed:
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:16 am
Subject: Re (38): No Subject
haha
come on,
YOUR SHY
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:22 am
Subject: Re (39): No Subject
I am not!
I'll tell you in person tommorow at starbucks
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:23 am
Subject: Re (40): No Subject
o rly?
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:24 am
Subject: Re (41): No Subject
ya better give me your number just in case
you got texting?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:25 am
Subject: Re (42): No Subject
no, i don't :imslow:
*gives number* of course i do.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:29 am
Subject: Re (43): No Subject
oh you little smart ass ahaha
you and my sister would get along just fine
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I also recorded the whole series of messages. I would like some critique on my messaging game for those who have time but it's fairly long so I'll stick it in a comment on this post.
And that's how I got my first number close after learning about pickup. I have a feeling she's going to flake because it's the day after but If I get the Day 2 I'll FR it and grab some pictures too!
Thanks guys I'm out,
Shadow5a
Phone Backgrounds
I-Man: Damn, i was right about you! Your a brat AND your hella fun! I'll tell you what, I'll text you on Thursday before we go to ( aforementioned place) and let ya know when were going.
Notice i dont even ask for the number and hand her my phone. HB looks at phone for a second.
HB: Who is this?
I-man looks to see a half naked chick on the background of his phone and then I-Man displays a picture perfect "oh fuck" look all over his face. Body language falls apart.
I-Man: Its my baby sister of course, haha, geez.
HB: Eww, thats gross.
So yeah, I fucked that up pretty bad, lol. Everything prolly would have been ok if i had said that it is just some girl im kinda seeing or whatever. Oh well, unexpected shit happens sometimes. Anyways...
Ever since then, i have been thinking about what to put on the background of my phone. Lately I have been using a picture of my brothers baby. It builds a little comfort because they always ask about the baby and I can go into a routine.
I always hand my phone to the girls so they can put their number in so they always see my background. What do you guys put in your backgrounds? This is a good opportunity for us to demonstrate value, personality, comfort, or whatever we want them to see. So, what is the best thing to put in there?
Notice i dont even ask for the number and hand her my phone. HB looks at phone for a second.
HB: Who is this?
I-man looks to see a half naked chick on the background of his phone and then I-Man displays a picture perfect "oh fuck" look all over his face. Body language falls apart.
I-Man: Its my baby sister of course, haha, geez.
HB: Eww, thats gross.
So yeah, I fucked that up pretty bad, lol. Everything prolly would have been ok if i had said that it is just some girl im kinda seeing or whatever. Oh well, unexpected shit happens sometimes. Anyways...
Ever since then, i have been thinking about what to put on the background of my phone. Lately I have been using a picture of my brothers baby. It builds a little comfort because they always ask about the baby and I can go into a routine.
I always hand my phone to the girls so they can put their number in so they always see my background. What do you guys put in your backgrounds? This is a good opportunity for us to demonstrate value, personality, comfort, or whatever we want them to see. So, what is the best thing to put in there?
Sunday, May 18, 2008
FR: Return from Bermuda
Ah.
I'm tired, not sunburned, and sick. That means 2/3s of my successful vacation criteria has been met.
Anyway, I just recited my whole trip minute for minute to Golden Child and realized (in terms of sarging) nothing too earth-shattering happened. I got a few make outs. I broke up a 9 month relationship when one of those aforementioned make outs happened right in front of the girl's boyfriend. I worked on quick escalation and venue bouncing with great success. I almost pulled a girl onto the beach until her super annoying friend followed us and cockblocked me. I opened pretty much 100 percent of my sets except for an atrocious 2-set who screamed at me (scary!).
Hmmmmm...I guess if you're planning a vacation to Bermuda, here are my tips.
1.) All the guys look gangsta but are complete chodes who supplicate endlessly.
2.) PEACOCK! If you look at the pictures, you can see I dress completely incongruently to the environment every night. Sure I got a lot of shit from guys but I also had girls opening me since I stood out like a bright shiny object.
3.) Being from a cool place in the US (like NY) gives you instant social proof.
4.) No tourists go to Bermuda anymore (too expensive!) so it's all local girls.
5.) The local girls are all pretty cute (7s and 8s) but no standout bombshells.
6.) All the girls have a really cute Bermudian accent.
Now pictures starring TJ, Prada, Thoery, HB8StarryEyes, HB8.5StripperIOIs, HB7CockBlock, and unfortunately HB8.5 Skinny Blonde's picture didn't develop (I had my digital camera stolen so I had to buy one of those cheap disposable cameras...sucked). I'm not going to label these pictures or explain the significance of the names. Consider this a "Photo FR" with shitty photos.
Pax.
~TJ
I'm tired, not sunburned, and sick. That means 2/3s of my successful vacation criteria has been met.
Anyway, I just recited my whole trip minute for minute to Golden Child and realized (in terms of sarging) nothing too earth-shattering happened. I got a few make outs. I broke up a 9 month relationship when one of those aforementioned make outs happened right in front of the girl's boyfriend. I worked on quick escalation and venue bouncing with great success. I almost pulled a girl onto the beach until her super annoying friend followed us and cockblocked me. I opened pretty much 100 percent of my sets except for an atrocious 2-set who screamed at me (scary!).
Hmmmmm...I guess if you're planning a vacation to Bermuda, here are my tips.
1.) All the guys look gangsta but are complete chodes who supplicate endlessly.
2.) PEACOCK! If you look at the pictures, you can see I dress completely incongruently to the environment every night. Sure I got a lot of shit from guys but I also had girls opening me since I stood out like a bright shiny object.
3.) Being from a cool place in the US (like NY) gives you instant social proof.
4.) No tourists go to Bermuda anymore (too expensive!) so it's all local girls.
5.) The local girls are all pretty cute (7s and 8s) but no standout bombshells.
6.) All the girls have a really cute Bermudian accent.
Now pictures starring TJ, Prada, Thoery, HB8StarryEyes, HB8.5StripperIOIs, HB7CockBlock, and unfortunately HB8.5 Skinny Blonde's picture didn't develop (I had my digital camera stolen so I had to buy one of those cheap disposable cameras...sucked). I'm not going to label these pictures or explain the significance of the names. Consider this a "Photo FR" with shitty photos.
Pax.
~TJ
Saturday, May 17, 2008
What's YOUR passion?
So guys, just something serious to ask, but what is your passion?
What is something that you can't live without that deals with ONLY you and the first thing that comes to mind for you?
Why is this your "passion"?
For example, my passion is music. Because with music, I can sing.
So, please list your "passion". I wanna have a feel from people here.
What is something that you can't live without that deals with ONLY you and the first thing that comes to mind for you?
Why is this your "passion"?
For example, my passion is music. Because with music, I can sing.
So, please list your "passion". I wanna have a feel from people here.
Postcard from Bermuda
Sup guys.
I'm on Prada's sister's computer writing this up real quick before going out on my last night on this beautiful island.
I'll write a whole FR of my stay here, but for now all I can say is this is truely an island of chodes. All these dudes look like hardcore gangstas (both the black and the white guys) but are complete LSE chodes.
The girls are all pretty hot but no standout 10s. Isolation and discretion is harder than it is in NYC since everyone knows each other and I'm not staying in a hotel.
But the "shinny object" theory is SO true. Very easy to get attraction and compliance with these girls.
Anyway, I'm glad to see FRs are still going up. Keep holding it down in the States while I'm gone and expect a FR and pictures when I return!
PAX!
~TJ
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Apocalypse Now, Summer Pickings
A lot has been going on lately and My Game is really coming along nicely. About a week ago we had Fader, a Mystery Method instructor stop by Pittsburgh cause he had a high paying client out here. So, for 200 bucks, (his hotel cost) he held a little half day Seminar for all the Pittsburgh PUA's.
This was the first time i met all of the Pittsburgh PUA's, and frankly, was not that impressed. I mean, i met like 10 guys at this meeting and only a few had high status social skills. They all seemed star struck because we had someone famous in our midst. It was fucking pathetic. And then when we went out that night with Fader... I was on my 3rd set which was going very well, and all the other guys just stood around Fader like it was still a classroom setting. Fader was awesome. A very Genuine guy.
So lets get to what this field report is really about. Apocalypse Now. One the new guys i met told me about this thing called Apocalypse, some RSD reference. Basically, when all the clubs and bars shut down for the night, there are mass amount of people standing outside, getting in fights, making out, waving down cabs, total craziness. So Apocalypse method takes advantage of this emotionally driven time span. Basically, the routine goes like this.
I-Man: Hey whats up
HB: blah
I-Man: what are you doing later
HB: blah
I-Man: cool, would you like to come home with me? (However using the subtle context and tonality of "what time is it".
HB: Hahahahah, no!
I-Man: We are so broken up missy. I want my Cd's back damnit!
I did this to a girl that was on the phone, she cracked up so bad she had to hang up the phone and talk to me. Fucking amazing right? Do this to enough girls and you will always find one that hooks. Guys, they are never going to say yes, but they laughed really hard like every time.
Here is my set that really hooked. HBRussian was in a group of 8's and i didnt really have a target, just kinda went in and worked it. I dont really remember what i opened with... but i called out this tall girl with a long silver locket of a heart. "That is the fakest Tiffanys Necklace i have ever seen" Apparently i came off as gay because i know what Tiffany's looks like. But im glad i called her out, this chick was giving me the worst shit tests in the world. So as i appropriately handled each shitest, I caught HBRussian looking at me. Thats when I used the Apocalypse routine.
I-Man: whats up, what you doin tonight, would you like to come home with me?
HBRussian: haha, Maybe if you werent gay!
I-Man: Oh damn everybody, she burned my closet! You are so cute... for being from another planet!
HBfakeTiffanys: We are leaving, bye!
I-Man: Holy shit...are you the cockblock of the group:
HBfriends: HAHAAhh, she sooo is.
I-Man: Awesome, i am the cockblock of my group, we can totally smell our own!
Faketiffanys was trying her damndest to pull HBRussian away from me, but after i said the cockblock thing, HBRussian didnt budge an inch. But what did she do? Called me gay again!!! I really gotta work on my voice control as well, haha lol.
Since FakeTiffany was trying to pull her south, i grabbed HBRussian and led the way. Once i realized she seriously thought i was gay, i went MORE caveman than i ever have in my life! no more than 20 steps later....
HBRussian: I hate it when guys tell me what to do.
I-Man gives the most gleaming NLP seductive eye gaze EVER and says
I-Man: Oh my god your feisty!! I love feisty girls!
I threw her up against a telephone pole, and bam! Makeout. Keep in mind, i didnt get a single IOI....except for the gay thing. After that we talked for 20 seconds and i went for the number close....had to be quick cause its a street pickup.
HBRussian: I have a husband
I-Man: Awesome!! I will allow him to make us breakfast in the morning! But i warn you, if the OJ is not fresh, im gonna kick his ass!!!
As she laughed hysterically I spun her around and then...bam another makeout. I went for the number close again. She was still resistant. At this point, i kinda lost my game. I just pressured her into it. Just do it, do it. Like Nike says...or something like that. Bad game. I finally got the # though, and she rejoined her group of 6 or so friends who witnessed the whole thing. haha. All in the span of 5 minutes. Apocalypse Now!!!!
Here is the txt game i initiated 5 minutes after she walked away. I had to keep her state pumped or i knew she would flake.
I-Man:Hey space alien. I am so gay your husband should jump in with us!
HBRussian: Yeah i wasnt serious. And I hope your not gay, your sexy
I-Man:Haha, control yourself woman! I fucking love woman that challenge me...
HBRussian: Yeah, i love men that arent intimidated by that. you should come see me
I-Man:Haha, Im not falling for that again! Dont like one night stands you sexual predator(had to work at 7am and it was 2:30am) I am more of a long term fucktoy ;) Well see how we mesh next few days
HBRussian:Haha!! I didnt mean tonight :( sorry not that kinda girl, I meant you should cum to ******* for me sometime.
I-Man:We will see...and we will see.
HBRussian:Umm...ok :( call me. Hope im worth making the trip
I-Man:Haha, im the worse texter in the world. And dont worry, i will
HBRussian: You gonna be like every other an make promises you dont keep?
I-Man:And im also responsible and have to work at 7am(this was around 4am) Yes im a total asshole. Whatever you do, dont pickup your phone when i call you tommorrow.
HBRussian: Ok ;)
Phone game with her was great. I use the MeHow phone game method. Always works. The D2 with HBRussian went great. We went Cologne shopping. Fucking great D2, cologne shopping. Went to dinner, i asked her if she was gonna eat her bread roll and she said no. So i took it, cut out a mouth, and made it talk to her. Small tip, making stupid objects talk is always funny. After dinner we went driving...
I-Man: Is that a car dealership?
HBRussian: I think....
Then you hear my tires screech as i pull in. I Ended up making out with her on the hood of a car, and stole a golf cart to drive it around the dealership. We got out and left before anyone said anything...No F-close yet with this girl, but she called me the other night. I hardly ever get flakes anymore.
Getting Txtual with HBX-Files
So my HB9, which is HBXfiles, pickup is going very well. We had sex 3 times now and im still holding the frame that we are not dating. Before i F-closed her....One sunday morning she texts me threatening to quit her job and just bitching in general. By the way, this girl loves the Blueman Group, NickelBack, and the X-Files.
HBX-files: Bitch bitch bitch....
I-Man: You know what....Im gonna come over wednesday, completely painted in Blue, throw on your fav Nickel Back CD, and im gonna whisper top Secret Government secrets in your ear. So sexy, i know ;)
HBX-files: Actually, that is sexy
At this point, i kept getting more sexual over txt. I cant remember how the rest went, but i know i ended with, "I hope you have blue sheets"
Inner Game Note on phone game:
When im talking to chicks on the phone for the first time, i always have the urge to ask them what they though about me when we first met. Or i wanna ask them if they want me to call them another time. I want to ask them if they had a good time talking to me. This is the stupid AFC talking. Never ask these question. The men these chicks want to be with dont ask these questions because high value guys know that the girls like them, want them, have a good time with them. Asking these questions is admitting your weakness.
Another random night...Before i go on, ugly chicks do have hot friends, so sometimes it is ok to open UGS with hopes of meeting their lovely counter parts.
There was a HB6 and HB7 sitting next to the bathroom at the end of the bar. Looking around the room, i only saw a handful of other opportunities so I just went for it. Why not right? Blahblahblah, the set was going great. And then.... their HB9 friend got out of the bathroom while i had their BT spiked. (YES!!!) And wow, this HB9 shit tested me more than any other girl ever. When i ran out of anti shit test stuff, i just ignored her. It didnt even work so I ejected. Her friends came back later to apologize and try to touch me. Hands off ugs!!
Final note.
Sorry for the crazy long post, i really should have broken this up. But life is fucking good lately. I broke up with my LDR and have the whole summer free. I already have 5 beautiful girls ive been seing. Have pics of 3, these are the sure things :) I am not that which i have been. By the way, HBFridays picked ME up when i was an AFC and now she is back in town, I really want her again. :)
HBXfiles
HBRusian HBFridays
This was the first time i met all of the Pittsburgh PUA's, and frankly, was not that impressed. I mean, i met like 10 guys at this meeting and only a few had high status social skills. They all seemed star struck because we had someone famous in our midst. It was fucking pathetic. And then when we went out that night with Fader... I was on my 3rd set which was going very well, and all the other guys just stood around Fader like it was still a classroom setting. Fader was awesome. A very Genuine guy.
So lets get to what this field report is really about. Apocalypse Now. One the new guys i met told me about this thing called Apocalypse, some RSD reference. Basically, when all the clubs and bars shut down for the night, there are mass amount of people standing outside, getting in fights, making out, waving down cabs, total craziness. So Apocalypse method takes advantage of this emotionally driven time span. Basically, the routine goes like this.
I-Man: Hey whats up
HB: blah
I-Man: what are you doing later
HB: blah
I-Man: cool, would you like to come home with me? (However using the subtle context and tonality of "what time is it".
HB: Hahahahah, no!
I-Man: We are so broken up missy. I want my Cd's back damnit!
I did this to a girl that was on the phone, she cracked up so bad she had to hang up the phone and talk to me. Fucking amazing right? Do this to enough girls and you will always find one that hooks. Guys, they are never going to say yes, but they laughed really hard like every time.
Here is my set that really hooked. HBRussian was in a group of 8's and i didnt really have a target, just kinda went in and worked it. I dont really remember what i opened with... but i called out this tall girl with a long silver locket of a heart. "That is the fakest Tiffanys Necklace i have ever seen" Apparently i came off as gay because i know what Tiffany's looks like. But im glad i called her out, this chick was giving me the worst shit tests in the world. So as i appropriately handled each shitest, I caught HBRussian looking at me. Thats when I used the Apocalypse routine.
I-Man: whats up, what you doin tonight, would you like to come home with me?
HBRussian: haha, Maybe if you werent gay!
I-Man: Oh damn everybody, she burned my closet! You are so cute... for being from another planet!
HBfakeTiffanys: We are leaving, bye!
I-Man: Holy shit...are you the cockblock of the group:
HBfriends: HAHAAhh, she sooo is.
I-Man: Awesome, i am the cockblock of my group, we can totally smell our own!
Faketiffanys was trying her damndest to pull HBRussian away from me, but after i said the cockblock thing, HBRussian didnt budge an inch. But what did she do? Called me gay again!!! I really gotta work on my voice control as well, haha lol.
Since FakeTiffany was trying to pull her south, i grabbed HBRussian and led the way. Once i realized she seriously thought i was gay, i went MORE caveman than i ever have in my life! no more than 20 steps later....
HBRussian: I hate it when guys tell me what to do.
I-Man gives the most gleaming NLP seductive eye gaze EVER and says
I-Man: Oh my god your feisty!! I love feisty girls!
I threw her up against a telephone pole, and bam! Makeout. Keep in mind, i didnt get a single IOI....except for the gay thing. After that we talked for 20 seconds and i went for the number close....had to be quick cause its a street pickup.
HBRussian: I have a husband
I-Man: Awesome!! I will allow him to make us breakfast in the morning! But i warn you, if the OJ is not fresh, im gonna kick his ass!!!
As she laughed hysterically I spun her around and then...bam another makeout. I went for the number close again. She was still resistant. At this point, i kinda lost my game. I just pressured her into it. Just do it, do it. Like Nike says...or something like that. Bad game. I finally got the # though, and she rejoined her group of 6 or so friends who witnessed the whole thing. haha. All in the span of 5 minutes. Apocalypse Now!!!!
Here is the txt game i initiated 5 minutes after she walked away. I had to keep her state pumped or i knew she would flake.
I-Man:Hey space alien. I am so gay your husband should jump in with us!
HBRussian: Yeah i wasnt serious. And I hope your not gay, your sexy
I-Man:Haha, control yourself woman! I fucking love woman that challenge me...
HBRussian: Yeah, i love men that arent intimidated by that. you should come see me
I-Man:Haha, Im not falling for that again! Dont like one night stands you sexual predator(had to work at 7am and it was 2:30am) I am more of a long term fucktoy ;) Well see how we mesh next few days
HBRussian:Haha!! I didnt mean tonight :( sorry not that kinda girl, I meant you should cum to ******* for me sometime.
I-Man:We will see...and we will see.
HBRussian:Umm...ok :( call me. Hope im worth making the trip
I-Man:Haha, im the worse texter in the world. And dont worry, i will
HBRussian: You gonna be like every other an make promises you dont keep?
I-Man:And im also responsible and have to work at 7am(this was around 4am) Yes im a total asshole. Whatever you do, dont pickup your phone when i call you tommorrow.
HBRussian: Ok ;)
Phone game with her was great. I use the MeHow phone game method. Always works. The D2 with HBRussian went great. We went Cologne shopping. Fucking great D2, cologne shopping. Went to dinner, i asked her if she was gonna eat her bread roll and she said no. So i took it, cut out a mouth, and made it talk to her. Small tip, making stupid objects talk is always funny. After dinner we went driving...
I-Man: Is that a car dealership?
HBRussian: I think....
Then you hear my tires screech as i pull in. I Ended up making out with her on the hood of a car, and stole a golf cart to drive it around the dealership. We got out and left before anyone said anything...No F-close yet with this girl, but she called me the other night. I hardly ever get flakes anymore.
Getting Txtual with HBX-Files
So my HB9, which is HBXfiles, pickup is going very well. We had sex 3 times now and im still holding the frame that we are not dating. Before i F-closed her....One sunday morning she texts me threatening to quit her job and just bitching in general. By the way, this girl loves the Blueman Group, NickelBack, and the X-Files.
HBX-files: Bitch bitch bitch....
I-Man: You know what....Im gonna come over wednesday, completely painted in Blue, throw on your fav Nickel Back CD, and im gonna whisper top Secret Government secrets in your ear. So sexy, i know ;)
HBX-files: Actually, that is sexy
At this point, i kept getting more sexual over txt. I cant remember how the rest went, but i know i ended with, "I hope you have blue sheets"
Inner Game Note on phone game:
When im talking to chicks on the phone for the first time, i always have the urge to ask them what they though about me when we first met. Or i wanna ask them if they want me to call them another time. I want to ask them if they had a good time talking to me. This is the stupid AFC talking. Never ask these question. The men these chicks want to be with dont ask these questions because high value guys know that the girls like them, want them, have a good time with them. Asking these questions is admitting your weakness.
Another random night...Before i go on, ugly chicks do have hot friends, so sometimes it is ok to open UGS with hopes of meeting their lovely counter parts.
There was a HB6 and HB7 sitting next to the bathroom at the end of the bar. Looking around the room, i only saw a handful of other opportunities so I just went for it. Why not right? Blahblahblah, the set was going great. And then.... their HB9 friend got out of the bathroom while i had their BT spiked. (YES!!!) And wow, this HB9 shit tested me more than any other girl ever. When i ran out of anti shit test stuff, i just ignored her. It didnt even work so I ejected. Her friends came back later to apologize and try to touch me. Hands off ugs!!
Final note.
Sorry for the crazy long post, i really should have broken this up. But life is fucking good lately. I broke up with my LDR and have the whole summer free. I already have 5 beautiful girls ive been seing. Have pics of 3, these are the sure things :) I am not that which i have been. By the way, HBFridays picked ME up when i was an AFC and now she is back in town, I really want her again. :)
“I am not now That which I have been.” ~ Lord Byron, Child Harold (1812)
HBXfiles
HBRusian HBFridays
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Is it just me or...?
Hey guys. Well, this past weekend, I was at a friend's little sister's prom (waste of fuckin' time). It was a VERY strange week. Pretty much like a week of weirdness mixed in with drugs. I'll speak about it. lacking. Strange, but that's not all. This past weekend, I lost my fuckin' wallet. I had pictures, condoms, credit cards, and store cards. I also had my driver's license, health care info, school ID, gym card, and money in there. Ah fuck! Someone probably picked it up because it's not anywhere to be found!
But before this, on Sunday, I went with my family to eat out at Minado for Mother's Day. Minado is a very rich target place to go to. Seen targets with their families, but I lock out and didn't game any chick. I felt like a chode for the second time in my life. Worst feeling EVER. I grab my plate full of Japanese dishes and grub on it while the hottest chicks look at me eat. Can't I just eat without anyone staring at me? It's a bad time, since I am tr
So anyways, I have been lacking in my game. REALLYying to spend quality time with my family. Anyways, there was this mother. HOT ass mother. Probably Latina or white, but she was a mom. A young one at the very least to say. She was around 5'6, thin build, brunette, and was one of those chicks where you would see in a music video. One of the really hot chicks. I see her gazing at me and I'm like, "Don't do it, Gerry. She's with her family and man." I look at her confidently and then away, but I keep repeating the cycle. My inner self wanted me to talk to her, but it's not worth it for a day like this. Her man then stares at me hard. He's not mad, but I have a feeling that he knew who I was.
So, while waiting in line, there's so many people. I see the stereo-typical Asian woman with a white guy and pretty much bust out laughing out loud in the place because I was thinking, "Damn, I should of brought my white girl to show off." Everyone's looking at me and I know what they're thinking. "What the fuck is his problem?" I let the feelings cease and grab my food to eat. After I was done eating FOUR big ass food-filled plates, I had to get ice cream. I got the green tea ice cream.
So, I got the ice cream and ate it. My sister-in-law points to the window behind me and asks me, "What's that?" I turn around. I turn back around and I see my sister-in-law laughing. I then take a scoop of my green tea ice cream. I put the scoop of it in my mouth. Suddenly, the taste of a spoonful wasabi was in my mouth. It literally took me over ten seconds to figure it out. Hardy har har, I swallow the fuckin' spoonful of wasabi. Tasted like shit. Here's a picture of the green tea ice cream laced with wasabi:
I'm now pissed. I just tell myself to get over it and my sister-in-law apologizes and gets me the red bean ice cream. I eat that all. We all then leave and we paid $157.00 total. Wasn't bad at all. Left the restaurant and went home. My wallet then was forever lost.
But before this, on my friend's sister's prom night, my phone breaks. Like, WTF. I now have an unlocked rare burgundy colored Motorola RIZR Z3 that I paid fuckin' $589.00 for, but I found out that it's only $30.00 at T-Mobile. FUCK! Assholes! After this, I tried to schedule an appointment to get my hair cut at D's Barbershop. No one answers. I had to look good for this event if I wanted the teachers. But it didn't matter. Stupid ass Friday.
This prom night was literally one of the worst nights I've ever had. See more about it @ http://therealhengman.blogspot.com. Ever since, I've been pretty stressed out about how my luck's going, but that's stupid because I don't even believe in luck. Shit. I also then hear that I have to work out a contract with Jive or Epic Records, by one point, I was signed to Epic and they then moved me to the bigger Sony BMG. WTF. I'm now trying get a meet up with Akon and his manager so I could get signed with them, since my genre of performing is really close to Colby O Donis. A few cats from the community already heard my songs, so yeah. If anyone wants it, just IM me at GHeng68 on AIM or Hengman@live.com on MSN. I'll be glad to send it out. I already got a few requests on the radio.
Anyways, I'm out. This week shall be good for me.
Make money, get girls, and fuck crazy,
-Hengman!
But before this, on Sunday, I went with my family to eat out at Minado for Mother's Day. Minado is a very rich target place to go to. Seen targets with their families, but I lock out and didn't game any chick. I felt like a chode for the second time in my life. Worst feeling EVER. I grab my plate full of Japanese dishes and grub on it while the hottest chicks look at me eat. Can't I just eat without anyone staring at me? It's a bad time, since I am tr
So anyways, I have been lacking in my game. REALLYying to spend quality time with my family. Anyways, there was this mother. HOT ass mother. Probably Latina or white, but she was a mom. A young one at the very least to say. She was around 5'6, thin build, brunette, and was one of those chicks where you would see in a music video. One of the really hot chicks. I see her gazing at me and I'm like, "Don't do it, Gerry. She's with her family and man." I look at her confidently and then away, but I keep repeating the cycle. My inner self wanted me to talk to her, but it's not worth it for a day like this. Her man then stares at me hard. He's not mad, but I have a feeling that he knew who I was.
So, while waiting in line, there's so many people. I see the stereo-typical Asian woman with a white guy and pretty much bust out laughing out loud in the place because I was thinking, "Damn, I should of brought my white girl to show off." Everyone's looking at me and I know what they're thinking. "What the fuck is his problem?" I let the feelings cease and grab my food to eat. After I was done eating FOUR big ass food-filled plates, I had to get ice cream. I got the green tea ice cream.
So, I got the ice cream and ate it. My sister-in-law points to the window behind me and asks me, "What's that?" I turn around. I turn back around and I see my sister-in-law laughing. I then take a scoop of my green tea ice cream. I put the scoop of it in my mouth. Suddenly, the taste of a spoonful wasabi was in my mouth. It literally took me over ten seconds to figure it out. Hardy har har, I swallow the fuckin' spoonful of wasabi. Tasted like shit. Here's a picture of the green tea ice cream laced with wasabi:
I'm now pissed. I just tell myself to get over it and my sister-in-law apologizes and gets me the red bean ice cream. I eat that all. We all then leave and we paid $157.00 total. Wasn't bad at all. Left the restaurant and went home. My wallet then was forever lost.
But before this, on my friend's sister's prom night, my phone breaks. Like, WTF. I now have an unlocked rare burgundy colored Motorola RIZR Z3 that I paid fuckin' $589.00 for, but I found out that it's only $30.00 at T-Mobile. FUCK! Assholes! After this, I tried to schedule an appointment to get my hair cut at D's Barbershop. No one answers. I had to look good for this event if I wanted the teachers. But it didn't matter. Stupid ass Friday.
This prom night was literally one of the worst nights I've ever had. See more about it @ http://therealhengman.blogspot.com. Ever since, I've been pretty stressed out about how my luck's going, but that's stupid because I don't even believe in luck. Shit. I also then hear that I have to work out a contract with Jive or Epic Records, by one point, I was signed to Epic and they then moved me to the bigger Sony BMG. WTF. I'm now trying get a meet up with Akon and his manager so I could get signed with them, since my genre of performing is really close to Colby O Donis. A few cats from the community already heard my songs, so yeah. If anyone wants it, just IM me at GHeng68 on AIM or Hengman@live.com on MSN. I'll be glad to send it out. I already got a few requests on the radio.
Anyways, I'm out. This week shall be good for me.
Make money, get girls, and fuck crazy,
-Hengman!
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Introduction
What up -
First of all, thanks TJ for inviting me in. I've been reading a whole bunch of stuff on here so I figured I should introduce myself rather than be an anonymous reader.
Brief bio:
I'm from the NYCSarge forum which is how I know of TJ. Have known about the community for about 2 years(from 'the game') though just recently I've been reading up/watching/ listening & thus trying to implement in the field.
I have enjoyed pretty much everything TJ has posted so I am very appreciative that he let me in on the blog....especially after we started off on the wrong foot on the NYCSarge forum, lol. I have also had the pleasure of meeting him at the newbie sarge, which I think he mentioned on here, though I am really pissed that i didn't get to open any sets/wing him or really see him in action though I hear he did his thing that night.
Unfortunately, I have(and still kind of do) had the worst case of one-itis/AFC-ness. I mean, I got dumped hard and straight up, it hurts. I am currently trying to get out of that mentality and trying to improve my inner game but it's gonna be a long, hard road. To be honest though, I know in the long run it's gonna be the best thing that ever happened to me. I have been doing things and seeing things in myself that I never would've had I not gotten dumped/found the community. I have taken some steps in the right direction and have seen some improvements just since I got into this so I know there's a light at the end of the tunnel...cold approaches, improved confidence, a few # closes(very high flake out rate though), better BL/eye contact/vocal tonality. Obviously there is an abundance of things I still need to work on but here's to getting out there and trying.
Hopefully, I will be able to post some good FR's for this group. Seems like a great bunch of guys
Scott (Blizz)
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