Alright so I'm making progress over the bullshit with my closing, heres the report:
So me and my wing were feeling the urge to go out and sarge hardcore, our plans to go to a party earlier was ruined so we decided we'd hit the movie theater (being minors and all).
The whole state discussion (see the earlier post) has had me hooked on the idea and all week I've been wired. I think I only had two mellow days so far since TJ introduced the idea of 100% to me, that coupled with my own theory of PMA created this: 100% PMA strolling into the theater like my fucking dad owned it or some shit. Alright no game inside, we got tickets and headed outdoors to search.
My wing is still have AA problems so the two set we walk by, some HB7 with platinum blond hair and HB8 a cute brunette I tell him to just stroll with me, I'll handle it.
Shadow5a: Hey, do you think this guy looks 18?
HBPlatinum: Uh...fghjkuivhji
Shadow5a: Because we just went in to get tickets and he got ID'd
HBPlatinum: Oh, what movie are you guy's going to see? I took this as an IOI
At this point HBPlatinum was like..staring at me, and I just realized why.
HBPlatinum: Don't I know you from somewhere?
Shadow5a: Oh Ya....puts on a enlightened look...Your Taylor right?
HBPlatinum: Ya, your Peter right?
skip forward about 5 minutes, the girls didn't have money to get in or something so we told them that our friends were sneaking in and they could come with.
HBCuteBrunette: So are we going to your movie?
Shadow5a: Yeah definitely, go with my friends and we'll open the doors for you
This is were me and my wing screwed up. They went into the theater before us and ruined our plans to isolate them. The coolest thing ever happened though, the friends we snuck in to the show thought that this whole sarging thing was bullshit. As I sat down Mike leaned over and whispered "Hey did you guys just pick those girls up?" I just said "Ya" and leaned back in my seat with the biggest grin on my face possible.
Anyways, when the movie was over we just walked out, figuring they would follow. Problem was they did but they just said "bye" and walked straight off.
I was kinda pissed because I was ready to walk up to HBCuteBrunette and close her but they just took off.
A day later I get two messages on Nexopia from these girls. That's where I managed to set up a day 2 and #close HBCuteBrunette.
This is how I closed:
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:16 am
Subject: Re (38): No Subject
haha
come on,
YOUR SHY
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:22 am
Subject: Re (39): No Subject
I am not!
I'll tell you in person tommorow at starbucks
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:23 am
Subject: Re (40): No Subject
o rly?
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:24 am
Subject: Re (41): No Subject
ya better give me your number just in case
you got texting?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:25 am
Subject: Re (42): No Subject
no, i don't :imslow:
*gives number* of course i do.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:29 am
Subject: Re (43): No Subject
oh you little smart ass ahaha
you and my sister would get along just fine
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I also recorded the whole series of messages. I would like some critique on my messaging game for those who have time but it's fairly long so I'll stick it in a comment on this post.
And that's how I got my first number close after learning about pickup. I have a feeling she's going to flake because it's the day after but If I get the Day 2 I'll FR it and grab some pictures too!
Thanks guys I'm out,
Shadow5a
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4 comments:
So here is the whole conversation, it's 50 messages but they're all really short. I would appreciate any feedback you got.
Feel free to delete this if it's too long and such.
My user name is No.Substance and HBCuteBrunette is .briannaa
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:06 am
Subject: No Subject
yoooooooooooooooooooooo
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:17 am
Subject: Re: No Subject
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:18 am
Subject: Re (2): No Subject
whats up
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:19 am
Subject: Re (3): No Subject
seriously? all this history together and that's all you've got to say?
I want a fucking divorce!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:32 am
Subject: Re (4): No Subject
i'm sorry baby,
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:33 am
Subject: Re (5): No Subject
and I'm taking the cats too
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:34 am
Subject: Re (6): No Subject
OH FINE,
I'M TAKING YOUR MICROWAVE
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:37 am
Subject: Re (7): No Subject
HAVE IT MOTHERFUCKER I SPILT MACARONI IN IT ANYWAYS
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:41 am
Subject: Re (8): No Subject
FUCK YOU THEN,
I WANT ALL OF YOUR MONEY.
muahahahahahahah
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:43 am
Subject: Re (9): No Subject
oh shes a gold digger
you know, I knew we wouldn't get along from the start
we never should have done it for the sex!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:44 am
Subject: Re (10): No Subject
hahahahahaha
i ain't no gold digga betch!
:)
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:45 am
Subject: Re (11): No Subject
I should have knew it from that night at the movies!
you took advantage of me right from the start!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 4:56 am
Subject: Re (12): No Subject
i know, i'm sorry ;)
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:04 am
Subject: Re (13): No Subject
hmm, well i guess i can forgive you
stupid cute smile of yours!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:04 am
Subject: Re (14): No Subject
hahahahahahahaha
tottaly just made my day.
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:05 am
Subject: Friends List Notification
[user].briannaa[/user] has added you to her friends list. You may remove yourself by clicking [url=/friends.php?action=delete&mode=2&id=702354&k=54ET6IGGUN]here[/url], or add her to yours by clicking [url=/friends.php?action=add&id=702354&k=54ET6IGGUN]here[/url].
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:19 am
Subject: Friends List Notification
[user]No.Substance[/user] has added you to his friends list. You may remove yourself by clicking [url=/friends.php?action=delete&mode=2&id=1135246&k=3JT20YA85Y]here[/url], or add him to yours by clicking [url=/friends.php?action=add&id=1135246&k=3JT20YA85Y]here[/url].
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:19 am
Subject: Re (15): No Subject
Well i'm glad to be of service your highness ahaha
guess what made my day
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:27 am
Subject: Re (16): No Subject
what was it
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:31 am
Subject: Re (17): No Subject
goin on a welk so I guess you gotta wait till tommorow to find out
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Wed May 21, 2008 5:31 am
Subject: Re (18): No Subject
ahahaha ok
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:27 am
Subject: No Subject
SUP
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:32 am
Subject: Re: No Subject
oh no not you again :)
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:33 am
Subject: Re (2): No Subject
YES, ME IT IS again..
haha
whats up
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:35 am
Subject: Re (3): No Subject
guess
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:36 am
Subject: Re (4): No Subject
hmmmmmm thats a tuffy
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:40 am
Subject: Re (5): No Subject
well you gotta answer me a question then
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:40 am
Subject: Re (6): No Subject
hahaha
what is it
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:48 am
Subject: Re (7): No Subject
whats that last time you did something adventurous?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:48 am
Subject: Re (8): No Subject
um,
long time ago.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:58 am
Subject: Re (9): No Subject
well thats no fun then!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 12:59 am
Subject: Re (10): No Subject
hahaha
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:03 am
Subject: Re (11): No Subject
no seriously thats not cool
me and you are going to fucking Miami
then were going down on the beach
and into the ocean
then we'll scare everybody with out shark fins!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:04 am
Subject: Re (12): No Subject
OKAY!
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:09 am
Subject: Re (13): No Subject
I'm fucking excited
after we'll go shopping for hot girls to cook dinner for us
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:12 am
Subject: Re (14): No Subject
okay ;)
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:15 am
Subject: Re (15): No Subject
or maybe i'll make you do it ahah
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:16 am
Subject: Re (16): No Subject
hahaha
i suck at cooking.
today, I BURNT COOKIES WITH TAYLOR.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:19 am
Subject: Re (17): No Subject
oh no no no that won't do
you're fired missy!
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:19 am
Subject: Re (18): No Subject
hahahahahaha
oh man
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:23 am
Subject: Re (19): No Subject
you think im joking :)
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:24 am
Subject: Re (20): No Subject
im sorry
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:26 am
Subject: Re (21): No Subject
:rolleyes:
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:34 am
Subject: Re (22): No Subject
lol
whats that for
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:36 am
Subject: Re (23): No Subject
it's a symbol of my passion for...uh...foam number one fingers?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:37 am
Subject: Re (24): No Subject
hahahahaha wth
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:38 am
Subject: Re (25): No Subject
yep thats definitely it
and you are definitely shy
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:39 am
Subject: Re (26): No Subject
im shy?
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:41 am
Subject: Re (27): No Subject
yep you don't talk at all
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:42 am
Subject: Re (28): No Subject
how don't i talk lol.
i'm just, having a bad day,
for the past few days.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:45 am
Subject: Re (29): No Subject
oh I understand
anything you want to talk about?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:47 am
Subject: Re (30): No Subject
it's just my boyfriend, we're on the verge of breaking up.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 1:54 am
Subject: Re (31): No Subject
oh I see
any particular reason?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:00 am
Subject: Re (32): No Subject
um.
because he lives in sherwood park,
and thinks the distance is a problem.
because he wants to be with someone ALl the time.
which is the stupidest thing i've veer heard,
because
relationships are about being apart to.
not always being together.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:02 am
Subject: Re (33): No Subject
I totally agree
I feel bad for him to lose a girl like you over such a stupid reason
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:03 am
Subject: Re (34): No Subject
he just, doesn't get it.
i wanna make things work, but i don't think he wants to.
he says he does, but until he proves it. i can't be with him.
lol, aweeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :blush:
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:10 am
Subject: Re (35): No Subject
I know what your talking about
You should have met this redhead I dated...omg what a nutcase
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:13 am
Subject: Re (36): No Subject
hahahaha
what'd she do?
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:14 am
Subject: Re (37): No Subject
Oh we are so not getting into that lol
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:16 am
Subject: Re (38): No Subject
haha
come on,
YOUR SHY
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:22 am
Subject: Re (39): No Subject
I am not!
I'll tell you in person tommorow at starbucks
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:23 am
Subject: Re (40): No Subject
o rly?
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:24 am
Subject: Re (41): No Subject
ya better give me your number just in case
you got texting?
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:25 am
Subject: Re (42): No Subject
no, i don't :imslow:
6687753 of course i do.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:29 am
Subject: Re (43): No Subject
oh you little smart ass ahaha
you and my sister would get along just fine
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:30 am
Subject: Re (44): No Subject
hahaha
i am a smart ass muaha
what's you're fucking number?
haha how old is she
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:31 am
Subject: Re (45): No Subject
wooah relax girl its 264 7925
and shes 16, but shes different than most people
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To: No.Substance
From: .briannaa
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:33 am
Subject: Re (46): No Subject
haha
alright
different? what do you mean.
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To: .briannaa
From: No.Substance
Date: Thu May 22, 2008 2:35 am
Subject: Re (47): No Subject
shes like...special needs...you know?
shes adorable though, I fucking love her
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Shadow-
AWESOME FR! Way to internalize the idea of 100 percent...so key!
A movie pickup is impressive! Any kind of close in day game is difficult because of logistics and energy levels and you made it happen. Mad respect.
As for your text game, I think it's solid. Great roleplay on the Miami thing and lots of good stuff here.
My only suggestion is don't get too caught up on "boyfriend" threads. Take this as a shit test. Just reframe it or ignore it. Don't ask if she needs to talk because that's what guys in LJBF zones do. But you made a key move by not trying to give her advice or solve her problems. Just listening is all girls really want.
Really nice dude. I'm smiling as I'm writing this.
2 things. Both have to deal with frame control.
You did an awesome job taking the frame when she brought up her boyfriend. You just went on talking about your last GF which was the right thing to do. Pre-selected and all that jazz.
When she accused you of being shy, you screwed up by saying "No im not" because you played into her frame. She got you to react emotionally and that is not something you want to do. By reacting to her comment you are subcommunicating that you are weak. A stronger man or PUA doesnt have to defend himself like that because in our minds, an accusation like that is so far from the truth, its so unbelievably ridiculous, that it doesn't even deserve a response.
instead of saying no and playing into her frame, there are a number of things you could have done.
1. Completely ignore the comment. Dont make even the slightest twitch in your face. Dont let your voice waver at all. Be completely non-affected not matter what comments are thrown your way.
2. Agree with whatever comment is said and exaggerate it to an extreme level. Mystery will sometimes wear this crazy multicolored coat and all the guys will come say it looks like a carpet or something, trying to AMOG Mystery. Mysteries response is: Actually I ripped it off my grandmothers couch, now she is sleeping on springs, shes sooo pissed at me. Or a retort to a shy accusation would be: Your the 8th person thats told me that today. All the critics that were reviewing my porno movie today said the same thing! Ugh, well at least you understand my problem.
First close, damn. Warning you is futile, however it should be stated for the record that your prolly gonna get one-itice if things tart to heat up with her. Happens to us all, more so near the beginning, and still does now. Be careful man, one-itice has killed many a PUA. Dangerous stuff. Good work on the 100% Sooo so important.
Funny you mention the one-itis thing.
She flaked and I have to admit i feel kind of shitty but I think I'll get over it soon. It's just the way she flaked, every time I texted her confirming the day two she wouldn't respond...
Oh well next target, she was far from perfect anyways.
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