Monday, May 12, 2008
Champ Manifesto
After reading Tylers "Chode Manifesto", I decided to change all the points into affirmations. I'm going to print this out and read it before going to bed...
Hi there. I am a CHAMP.
I go for location changes within the venue with every girl I approach because I know it's always going amazing.
I try to extract every girl that I approach out of the venue because I know it's always going great.
I kiss and initiate kino with every girl I approach because I know it's always going great.
...I try these things all the time and the girls say 'yes'.. So I figure they always want it, expect, and are glad I'm escalating...it's like second nature to me and I do it reflexly.
Initiating kino and kissing are natural and something I do immediately because it just feels right.
I go for numbers with every girl I approach because my approaches are always solid.
I get an average of 15 to 30 numbers a week like a normal guy as a result.
I always know what to do with a girl on a day2 even if I'm trying new venues or something I haven't "field tested".
I have an exact plan of where I would extract a girl to when she agrees to leave the club with me (Ritz Diner, Baker's Street Pub, home). I say "There's the best diner in the history of diners, I'm hungry. Let's go and order grilled cheeses." I know exactly what I should push for.
I call and follow up HARD with every girl whose number I get, and refuse to go out until I have called and left messages with every number on my list. I won't go out and gather more numbers until I call all the numbers on my list and view going out as a reward for having called all my numbers.
I always follow up on a girl when she doesn't call back first time.
I always follow up on a girl if she doesn't agree to a second meet the first time.
I use the girls who are flaking me as a chance to practice my conversational skills when they pickup the phone. I'm a great conversationalist on the phone because of it.
I realize most girls I approach will give me their number regardless of if it went well or not, so I always try.
I try to isolate every girl I go on day 2s with.
I have a plan of how to get a girl isolated (bring groceries back to my apartment), and my apartment has plenty of reasons to go back there.
I carry condoms with me when I go out because it's my reality that I get laid.
I understand what a cool guy looks like, because I walk around in with observational curiosity all day and look at all the cool people around me and study what makes them cool.
I can learn from all the "normal" people I'm seeing all the time because I know what a naturally compelling personality looks like.
I identify with cool people, and connect with them because they're real like me.
I view every interaction as a chance to give value to people. When I read posts, I compliment the details that are valid and focus on the positive. When I talk to bouncers, I joke around with them and think about how I'm making them feel as I talk to them. And when I see PUAs with their girls I'm happy to see guys making this stuff work. I simply view interactions as a way to make people feel good or to express creativity because I have unlimited value to give.
I like to focus on the positive things because I view myself as having unlimited value to offer. When I read the internet I love to write positive posts that encourage people.
I am inspired by paragraphs like the one above, to remind myself that my validation comes from my internal state. I am fully convinced that my "lover" personality is justified and that the world is an awesome place and good times are everywhere. The world inspires me because I am aligned with positive energy. I always find the positive, and I'm open to learning because seeing things as they are ensures I walk a higher path and allows me greater potential for growth.
I go out to have fun and because of that I'm in a playful state the entire time I'm out.
I love having non-logical conversations, because it allows me to get in touch with my emotional state and live in the moment. When I hang around with community guys, I like to pump their state, as well as my own, because we're all here to have fun. When I meet other community guys I prefer not to talk about GAME because I'd rather relate to them on non-logical topics because those are more fun.
I am connected to reality, so I understand what game looks like. When I see it, I admire and let it inspire me.
I also love to try new things, like keeping track of my eye contact and voice projection and deliberate use of humour and good energy in ALL my interactions. I try to break out of my "chode trance" as much as possible because I view ALL interactions as worthy to use good social skills in.
There is no magic pill and I appreciate anyone who is willing to help me grow as a person.
Hi there. I am a CHAMP.
I go for location changes within the venue with every girl I approach because I know it's always going amazing.
I try to extract every girl that I approach out of the venue because I know it's always going great.
I kiss and initiate kino with every girl I approach because I know it's always going great.
...I try these things all the time and the girls say 'yes'.. So I figure they always want it, expect, and are glad I'm escalating...it's like second nature to me and I do it reflexly.
Initiating kino and kissing are natural and something I do immediately because it just feels right.
I go for numbers with every girl I approach because my approaches are always solid.
I get an average of 15 to 30 numbers a week like a normal guy as a result.
I always know what to do with a girl on a day2 even if I'm trying new venues or something I haven't "field tested".
I have an exact plan of where I would extract a girl to when she agrees to leave the club with me (Ritz Diner, Baker's Street Pub, home). I say "There's the best diner in the history of diners, I'm hungry. Let's go and order grilled cheeses." I know exactly what I should push for.
I call and follow up HARD with every girl whose number I get, and refuse to go out until I have called and left messages with every number on my list. I won't go out and gather more numbers until I call all the numbers on my list and view going out as a reward for having called all my numbers.
I always follow up on a girl when she doesn't call back first time.
I always follow up on a girl if she doesn't agree to a second meet the first time.
I use the girls who are flaking me as a chance to practice my conversational skills when they pickup the phone. I'm a great conversationalist on the phone because of it.
I realize most girls I approach will give me their number regardless of if it went well or not, so I always try.
I try to isolate every girl I go on day 2s with.
I have a plan of how to get a girl isolated (bring groceries back to my apartment), and my apartment has plenty of reasons to go back there.
I carry condoms with me when I go out because it's my reality that I get laid.
I understand what a cool guy looks like, because I walk around in with observational curiosity all day and look at all the cool people around me and study what makes them cool.
I can learn from all the "normal" people I'm seeing all the time because I know what a naturally compelling personality looks like.
I identify with cool people, and connect with them because they're real like me.
I view every interaction as a chance to give value to people. When I read posts, I compliment the details that are valid and focus on the positive. When I talk to bouncers, I joke around with them and think about how I'm making them feel as I talk to them. And when I see PUAs with their girls I'm happy to see guys making this stuff work. I simply view interactions as a way to make people feel good or to express creativity because I have unlimited value to give.
I like to focus on the positive things because I view myself as having unlimited value to offer. When I read the internet I love to write positive posts that encourage people.
I am inspired by paragraphs like the one above, to remind myself that my validation comes from my internal state. I am fully convinced that my "lover" personality is justified and that the world is an awesome place and good times are everywhere. The world inspires me because I am aligned with positive energy. I always find the positive, and I'm open to learning because seeing things as they are ensures I walk a higher path and allows me greater potential for growth.
I go out to have fun and because of that I'm in a playful state the entire time I'm out.
I love having non-logical conversations, because it allows me to get in touch with my emotional state and live in the moment. When I hang around with community guys, I like to pump their state, as well as my own, because we're all here to have fun. When I meet other community guys I prefer not to talk about GAME because I'd rather relate to them on non-logical topics because those are more fun.
I am connected to reality, so I understand what game looks like. When I see it, I admire and let it inspire me.
I also love to try new things, like keeping track of my eye contact and voice projection and deliberate use of humour and good energy in ALL my interactions. I try to break out of my "chode trance" as much as possible because I view ALL interactions as worthy to use good social skills in.
There is no magic pill and I appreciate anyone who is willing to help me grow as a person.
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