Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Moods.

Well, guys...

This hasn't been updated in a while. I guess we all parted ways?

Anyways, I would just like to talk about moods, and how moods come into play when it comes to women.

For one, I'm in a relationship, and I'm satisfied. My girl is Dominican and I'm some Asian guy. Mixed babies? I think so.

But seriously, all of us need to learn how to control our moods and shape other people's moods.

Here's the secret to controlling moods--your thoughts. What I mean by this is that by controlling your thoughts, you control your mood. The way you think is a universal aspect of science.

Tell me this... If you saw the car you wanted and you kept wishing for it EVERYDAY, what else would happen? You'll save up money and get that car right? Exactly my point. People who want to game and get women with ease, but can't do it is because they are doubting themselves. I've noticed it happening more and more among people--even myself.

Whenever I go out, I tend to think to myself, "I'll get ALL of the chicks here." What happens next? I get all of the chicks I want. Why? Because I let my thoughts give me motivation, so I worked to get what I wanted and I got it.

It's just really disgusting to find guys who want to get women, but they doubt themselves because of excuses. There are no excuses for anything. When you doubt yourself, you aren't confident anymore.

By changing your thoughts and mindstate into always wanting and desiring, you'll shape yourself to get what you want because you'll work for it. Our society does work in this manner: If you work hard, you get paid for your hard work.

Remember that confidence equals attraction. There's no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

Oh yeah, let's talk about identity and confidence. There are guys who dress like confident men, but however, they sure don't act like it. And again, it's pointing to the mindstate of negativity that they have.

You can look, act, and speak as confident as you want. However, how far will it get you? Some of the most confident guys I know just aren't as confident as I thought they'd be. It's funny because when I see them talk to other people or talk to me, they start closing up in their body language...

Our moods effect everything we do. When we think of something that makes us mad, it just makes us madder. When we think of something that we love, it makes us happy. Going out and smiling will surely effect everything. This mood, for example, will have people look at you as a happy or positive guy. If you go out with a mugged face, people are going to wonder, "Why is he so emo?"

So anyways, by controlling your mood, you can control your environment. By making yourself seem attractive by knowing you're attractive at all times will get you the many girls out there that you want. Just gotta say to yourself, "I want her."

Thank you.

-Gerry.