Day Started off great, got up early to get some of a paper done that's due on Monday. Finishing that I got ready to go to the party I've been looking forward too for a month. I'm underage 'till November so my sarging is really limited to day game and I really wanted to experience the difference.
Arriving at the party my state was soaring. On the way there I had been listening to the audio recordings Lovedrop did for the Magnum Opus dvd set and they are absolutely amazing. First thing I did as I strolled in was talk to the first person I saw (I had been planning to do this all day.) This happened to some younger guy talking to some girl(Rockergirl) , her good looking friend (HBShorty) , and some asian ug bobbing her head up and down.
Shadow5a: Sup guys
Young Guy: Hey man how's it going?
Shadow5a: I'm alright, check out this girl hey? She's like a bobble head or something?!
Group laughs
Shadow5a: No, seriously I'm gonna shrink her down to this big and put her on top of my T.V. Imitates bobblehead ug (Sorry TJ that routine is to golden to not use).
Group starts laughing
Young guy: What's your name man?
Shadow5a: My names Peter
Shakes hands with group
At this point another asian guy comes in, and I could tell straight out this guy was AMOG material so I used this to my advantage.
Shakes hand with PhiliAMOG
Shadow5a: Hey man you wanna see something really awesome?
I teach him the invincible handshake, an AMOG technique I had just learned twenty minutes ago.
Shadow5a: (to HBshorty: Look its impossible to crush your hand like that, try it)
Extends hand(compliance test?) Ping
HBshorty extends hand and squeezes Pong
Shadow5a: See?!
HBshorty: Smiles, Pang negative.
I think this was mainly because of my body language, I had leaned in to extend my hand and I'm pretty sure my feet were facing her.
Shadow5a: Alright! High Five!
She tentatively high fives, giggling.
Shadow5a: Worst high five ever! Man we got to get you in the Gym, work on some of them bicep curls! Performs bicep curls action. Look this girl know whats going on(Sorry again TJ!)
High fives RockerGirl
At this point I was sweating profusely, and I can't really remember what happened after. Eventually I ended up sitting with HBShorty and RockerGirl where I locked myself in against the table.
After this my state was still amazing and I had a great time. I really was not interested in any of the girls at the party. To tell you the truth I haven't been interested in girls at all lately, I just want them to be interested in me (is this bad?) However during this party i practiced really well my AMOG techniques. There was another guy who showed up in a suit and tie and was obviously used to being the alpha. I had a hard time getting rid of him at first, but after I watched him for a while I blew him out of almost every set we were in together. This made me feel fantastic (again is this bad?) After that he was playing dancing monkey all night, and i laughed.
Another thing i worked on was frame. Walking into the party I really did not have a clear idea of what frame was, but by the end of the night I was an expert. I really did well dominating the frame in the sets I was involved in. In the middle of one of my DHV stories I noticed everyone in the group (7 set) looking at me and it just clicked.
Leaving the party was probably the best part, because everyone sort of groaned and walking out the door there were two people I had not even talked to the entire night. One was a major HB too.
HBMajor: It was nice meeting you!
=)
So that's it. Criticism is welcome.
One more thing i would like to talk about is a project I want to start. Kids always have trouble with preselection in high school and I want to find a way to reverse it. I've titled it Project Preselection and I'll be posting it on the VA forum when I'm finished.
And lastly, Any critique on my fashion? This is how I went out on saturday:
Questions:
One thing I need to work on is pumping buying temperature, I can get laughs but generally I am not a funny guy. Any tips?
And just for shits and giggles:
Thanks guys, I'm out
-Shadow5a
3 comments:
Good job on the game.. but dude, you are kinda dressed like a scarecrow.
Yeah, agreed with Ga'ash. I think you look better without the hat and jacket. You're not a bad looking dude so you don't need to overdue the peacocking, esp. at a party. The glasses are pretty atsy/cool-looking enough. If you build an avatar around that look (the "cool nerd" avatar), I think that might work better for you than going crazy with accessories.
Anyway, very nice post on the game. I'm glad you were able to use my routines/lines. Seriously, don't apologize for using my stuff. The reason I post my material on this blog and made it private is so that a few guys can use it without having it blow up or get it stolen by some jerkoff who's going to try to make money off it. I just sent I-Man an audio file of my notorious "Tony the Tiger" story. I'm HAPPY to hear when guys use my routines and they hit.
Think of it this way: One thing I love doing in comfort/D2s is play girls music I like. There's a song by Wolf Parade called "I'll Believe in Anything" that I think is the most romantic song ever recorded. If you actually hear the song, it sounds sort of crazy (guys are from Canada and have this weird vocal...fuck it, just listen to the song here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7G1eLTV89dM ) Anyway, I usually tell girls I have to play them this song and explain why I find the music and words so important. After I play them the song, usually girls look at me all lovingly and tell me they understand me better. Now, would anyone accuse me of being "fake" or "stealing someone else's material"? Since I didn't technically write the song, can it be assumed I'm parroting someone else's idea to create attraction/rapport? NO! The fact that I like THIS song says something about my personality. By explaining what the song means to me and playing it, I'm communicating something about my personality. So what is it's someone else's music. It relates to me.
So how does this apply to using someone else's routines? Okay, so say you use one of my routines because you thought it was funny. Is that wrong? Are you a social robot? NO! The answer is no for the same reasons that playing the song for the girl isn't "robotic". You appreciate the humor which says something about YOUR personality.
Of course, this comes with a caveat. Let's go back to my "song" example. Now, I know a lot of girls love Dave Matthews Band and specifically the song "Crash". Personally, I think that song blows. So, if I made up some story about how much that song "moves" me and then played her the song because I assumed this would make her attracted to me, THEN I'd be acting like a robot. Since this song DOESN'T say anything about my personality and I'm simply playing it because I've noticed girls usually love this song (so I'm supplicating and trying to get fake rapport) then this is BAD, WRONG, and should be avoided.
So, to sum up my convoluted point here, IF you like a routine on this blog or you think someone I've written is funny USE IT. It's not wrong. It communicates your personality in a way (and, if we view this game as pick up ARTS this me writing a routine for you to use is NO different than you playing a song someone wrote...they both communicate an EMOTION you feel when you "connect" with the artwork). However, if I write something and you think, "That's retarded" but I say "This is the best routine EVER" you STILL should not use it. Why? Because it's not communicating your personality.
Hmmmm...why do your posts always lead me off on these philosophical tangents on pick up??? Haha, I don't know.
Anyway, I have to get back to work but were there questions in this post? If so, I'll try to answer them later...
PAX.
~TJ
Good First FR man! I havent heard of the Magnum Opus DVD, i will have to check it out.
After i do the bobble head routine/variations/neg girls in general, i like to Mehow it up. I give the target a side ways hug and say, "dont worry, we love you"! Say it in a way that conveys your just being friendly and kinda teasing. As always, assess the situation and don't do it in awkward times. But more often than not, girls will usually comply with a quick sideways hug.
As for remembering what happens while your in field, i seem to remember the lines and routines that produce the most effect. So basically, I remember what worked well, and i remember what failed miserably. Everything else in the middle kinda fades away.
As for fashion, 1. whatever you wear, wear it with confidence. 2. Always have a good non reactive come back line for when your crazy peacocking. Also, when i am outside the city, i barely peacock at all as the rednecks like to get in fights. Also, i noticed you have a fedora, I also wear a fedora sometimes.
Amog: Your hats gay blah blah!
I-Man: Cool man, I see all these kids nowadays dressin all Homey-G gangstafied. I say fuck that, i roll with more class than that, like a 1920's godfatha gangsta.
As for you personally, I would say lose the glasses, grab more necklaces, bracelets, rings, your hair looks a little nappy in the photos. Very important, when i go sarging to meet new girls, i stick with lighter colors (light blue works best) because psychologically is very non-threatening. If im on a day 2 i wear whatever the hell i want, but usually go darker, but thats just me.
"To tell you the truth I haven't been interested in girls at all lately, I just want them to be interested in me (is this bad?)"
No its not bad. As PUA's it is our duty (my top priority) to add value everywhere we go. If i notice a girl becoming interested in me, IOI's, then i will then decide if i want her. Then i kino it up. Raise her buying temperature. I know that is also one of your questions but im at work right now. And im sure TJ or one of the other guys can answer it better than i can. Besides Im at work, shit im at work.
Awesome post, keep em' coming.
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