I may be easy, but I'm not sleazy

Alright guys, my latest thoughts on picking up women

'I may be easy, but I'm not sleazy'

Last night I was working the bar, and we had a slow night so me and my fellow bartender, a sick natural pickup artist and a great guy, got talking. I reviewed my latest experiences after returning to the pickup scene and we got to discussing our recent adventures in the field, and how women perceive us.

Now, we're pretty similar when it comes to personality, we're both into cocky/funny and high self esteem. He's more Alphadog in his approach, while I am more sleek. But we came across one single thing that seemed to define us both.

We're easy.

Now, by easy I don't mean in the traditional sense that women are sometimes called easy. What I mean is that we like to sleep around. We're he-sluts and we don't mind. What we do mind is the labeling.

Now, to label is human. We do it, to define our world. But what labels you use defines YOU. I don't mind being called a womanizer, or a hustler. I'll shrug if someone calls me a slut, I guess by their distinction I may be. But the fact that neither of us actually care what other people, or other women think really defines us.

We both agreed that the only way to handle a woman's shit test, e.g. 'I've heard you sleep around' is just to shrug or nod and continue. There's no need to comment on that, It's a statement, often true. And It's what we like to do. I like to sleep around, but we also both agreed on one thing. We hate being demonized for it.

What I mean, is some girls will talk shit about us. We're pricks or assholes, we treat women badly or hurt them. We draw the line at shrugging there.

These are girls we never even slept with, or picked up. In fact, we barely know these girls. And it brought us to a common doctrine, that I learned from Eric(Mystery) and my friend learned on his own. Leave them better than you found them., e.g. never hurt a woman or deliberately trick her into anything. You don't need to tell the whole truth, but you should not lie to her face.

It hurt us that women spoke about us that way. I can count all the women I've slept with and I still can call them all up and meet them for a beer and chat. I was honest with them all, and they expected nothing more of me. They will talk about me to their friends and share good stories.

This is what defines me, and should define everyone who is 'easy' out there in the field, if you are looking to have fun, don't lead them on with lies, don't trick or fool. Be yourself, be the pickup artist you are and make sure the girl knows that you two WILL have a good time, and you will NEVER hurt her.

I don't know about you, but the next time someone tells a girl I'm no good, she will get this speech.