Monday, July 14, 2008

The Next Step

Alright guys, I know I haven't posted in a while so I'll update you really quick.

First of all. For all of you who don't have a personal journal or blog or something...I definitely recommend it. I think it plays a large part in reflection on my life and has a large impact on my game.

Summer is going great, I've been out in the field lots. I got to take another shot at night game on Canada day (like independence day for Canada) and it was AWESOME! After 11:00 everyone started leaving and we hit probably ten sets in about thirty minutes. Every set we opened hooked and were a lot more receptive than a normal day game set. It was the best game I have ever ran, sets were fluent and when we got bored we simply merged to another set. I don't think I've ever gotten more attention from women in my life.

So that was some wicked fun. Another huge thing that happened was the Orleans meeting. One of the members of our local community got in touch with Orleans, a VinDicarlo guru who was born here and was doing a workshop in our town. He mentioned that he wanted to meet up with his hometown community while he was here. Now the local community is kind of disorientated and it took a while to organize everything but Me and another PUA rented out a room in a library basement and set a date.

This was amazing, I never met anyone else in my life who was not only into pickup but was GOOD at it. When he entered the room I could almost feel the charisma emanating off of him.

He talked to us for a while and one point he really stressed was taking the next step. Although his ideas on Natural Game were interesting, this is really what hit me. He was telling us to stop thinking about what to do now, and start thinking about what you need to do next to get the girl.

It really made me think. Us newbie PUAs need to really start thinking about the next step, It's the only way to get better. After Canada Day my game seemed to step down. Why? Because I was focusing on what I could already do: Get a phone number.

Fuck the phone number.

The next step is getting k-closes and lays. Orleans walked in being the same exact height and weight as me, there is no more excuses why I can't do this.

I really want you all who seem to be stuck to think: What do I have do next to step up my game to the next level.

Orleans really opened my eyes to quite a few things that day and I think this is one of the major point in my journey right now. However I still don't think I've hit that PUA level yet. I don't feel like everything has "clicked" entirely. But I know what I have to do to hit that level and I'm going to do it.

Thanks guys, I'm out.

P.S. Nice to see your back TJ, I was a little worried.

2 comments:

I-Man said...

hha, i know the feeling. For about 8 months me and my friend did everything we could with pickup, then i finally met the Social Network group in my city. Most of the guys were chodes, but there were a few good PUA's. It was a great feeling to finally sarge with other good PUA's. Damn good feeling.

Hengman said...

Nice. Orleans is one of my really good friends and he's flew out to NYC just today around 6PM.

Nice to know that you guys saw and did a lot of good things.

Me and Orleans are really result-oriented. We would like to put work in to earn it. There's never an easy way out for anything.