Sunday, January 20, 2008

Live my life

Hey guys, I have to apologize for two things. Really just one since one is responsible for the other, but I'll say 2 things.

The first is, sorry I didn't write a FR of my self-proclaimed challenge. To be honest, I went to the B&N, scoped out for babes and didn't see any worth approaching (the second thing I need to apologize for). I know that's the most awful self-delusion in the world and there were HBs there (hot enough to warrant at least approaching), but I had envisioned this awesome situation where I'd run into a sHB11, approach, attract her, bounce her directly to my D2 routine then f-close her. I figured that'd motivate everyone to take the Judge's challenge and start making similar posts.

And, unfortunately, after a few minutes at B&N, I just sipped a cup of coffee and berated myself for getting AA in day game.

Also, it brought another matter to my attention: I'm becoming a PUA snob. I only seriously approach chicks I'm really interested in (HB8+) and no longer practice game on ugs or less attractive women. This is partly related to another trend I've noticed in the field, which I want to develop more in a longer post. However, for now, I'll say the trend I've observed (which tonight confirmed) is that hotter girls are much easier to game than uglier ones. It seems once you approach confidently and congruently, these girls' brains haywire and they act like complete AFCs.

Anyway, it's 2:51 NYC time and I'm about to go to bed. But I had a decent night sarging back at the classy lounge where I pulled HB Asian Model. I rolled with my friend Eddie (known more appropriately as the Man Whore) who is one of the best naturals I've ever met (he was the king of the Crusaders). He understands MM and is interested in it, but relies primarily on natural game (I also want to write a post on MW because a lot of his techniques are unorthodox but effective). Anyway, he got us into some quality sets (notably one HB who was a film actress and singer...her videos are really big in Europe)...she insisted I take her email address and number even though I didn't even ask! But, all night, I kept looking at this HB10 sitting in a huge female 10-set. I told MW early on I thought she was the hottest chick in the place (and there were LOTS of amazingly gorgeous women there) and I was waiting for a good chance to approach. I kept reminding myself of the two most important things when gaming HB10s: 1.) If you don't exude and project complete confidence from the open, you're going to get blown out. 2.) These girls are so used to shooting guys down, their only game is rejecting dudes...they're AFCs once you get past their defenses. Seeing a guy making a fool of himself dancing in front of the 10-set I made my move.

The Judge: (Squats down to HB10) Sooo who's this guy? Dude's got moves, huh?

HB10: Haha, I don't know. Just some random guy dancing I guess.

The Judge: You guess?? Yeah right, you know this guy. He's like your husband or something, don't lie to me.

HB10: Ahahaha...noooooo, he's not I swear.

And it was on from there. If you notice I'm simply referring to her as HB10 and not anything in particular, it's because I didn't do enough comfort to find out anything especially interesting about her (huge mistake). I simply ran game. One very solid move I made, which I highly recommend is I walked away from her then reopened about an hour later. Here's how it went down:

The Judge: Yeah, so this chick totally molested me the other night. Like, if you can picture what Tony the Tiger looks like and make that into a woman, you'd totally be able to get an image of this chick...

HB10: AHAHAHAHHA Oh my God! Tell me this story!!!

The Judge: Shit, I don't know. I gotta get back to my friend. He misses me when I'm gone too long.

HB10: Nooooo, wait! You owe me this story!!

The Judge: Ohhhhh...so high maintenance and we just met. Well, your friends are being rude and ignoring my friend. So here's the deal. Set your watch because I'm coming back in one hour. I'm gonna go grab another drink with my friend then come find you because you're interesting to talk to. When I come back, if you're a good girl, I'll tell you about Tony the Tiger...Oh, but one more thing: Talk to your friends and make sure they know how cool Man Whore is, because if they continue to ignore my friend, it's never gonna work between us. Okay, HB10?

HB10: Judge, you're quite interesting, too. Okay, I'll talk to my friend and I'm setting my watch. You better come back!!

So I walked away, gamed a 2-set for about an hour with Ed then reopened HB10. When I rolled back up to her, she in the same place but now incredibly drunk (in fact, twice during our round 2 convo she took a shot!) but when I rolled back up to her, she gave me a huge IOI:

The Judge: Okay, I'm back. I hope you didn't miss me too much.

HB10: Ahahaha...you took more than an hour! Didn't you miss me??

The Judge: (smiles) Maybe. So, Tony the Tiger...

I saw another subtle IOI when her friend moved over on the couch and motioned for MW to sit with her (she actually told her to talk to MW!). However, HB10 was wrecked at this point so gaming her was like talking to a kid with ADD. She kept on trying to get me to pump her state by telling her stories. She said shit like, "You're a writer! Tell me more stories." Which I said no to. This isn't the first time a PU with a HB10 has quickly gone down the tubes for me, so I acted fast the minute I saw some cracks in my game forming.

The Judge: Alright HB10, it's decided. You're officially fun, pound. It's too bad we're meeting our friends in Murray Hill so I gotta roll out.

HB10: Nooooo, stay with us!! You're fun, too!!!

The Judge: Yo, look at you. You're here, being all cool with your big girl crew. I need to go chill with my guy crew. You know...I feel like a animal put in a zoo here. But, I've enjoyed our convo, we should continue it another time. Now...how could we do that??

HB10: You could stay with us!!

The Judge: Nahh, I already told you I can't do that. Here (pulls out phone), put your number in. I'll call you and we'll meet up and talk when you're not all drunk and shit, you little alcoholic...

From there, I number closed then took her camera and took a sexy picture of us. Hopefully the picture will jog her memory if she was really wasted. I know I might end up regretting writing this blog entry, since there's a good chance this number will flake. But isn't so funny how the HB10s get us so excited....

Goodnight from New York.

18 comments:

Decibel said...

Yeap...
1. I agree less attractive women sometimes are gruelling to game. Last night I ran tight game on HB7 with a budunkadunk butt just for s&g's, and she still refused to give me her # (proly had a BF I assume). Then did a similar 'I get taken advantage of all the time by women at bars' line on a dumb as fk 6 who blew me out with 'Huh?! YOU get hit on all the time??' I thanked her for that compliment and ejected. It's still worthwhile gaming less attractive sets just for practice.
2. Drunk HBs suck. Unless you manage to bounce them home and plow past LMR, it's usually a big flake.
3. I don't walk away from sets much anymore if I'm hooking. I keep trying to go into deep rapport and may only leave if she IODs or hugely DLVs. When you come back an hour later often some chump has taken your place, she doesn't remember you, and all your hard work was for not.

Rob Judge said...

1.) LoL...the "thanks for the compliment" is great. I'll add that arrow to my quiver. I find ugs and HB7s (even some HB8s) either blow you out immediately no matter how good your opener is (my hypothesis: they want to feel like hotties and they assume hotties shoot down dudes all the time). I wouldn't care but they're usually very rude about it (i.e. screaming or very visibly IODing you). Sometimes I like to make these girls feel like assholes for acting like such cunts, usually I just laugh and walk away. Even after the opener though, I find these girls don't respond well to game. They interrupt or misinterpret shit I'm saying (probably because lots of guy run game on them since they're not threatening therefore not being nervous isn't as big of a DHV as it is when you're calm running game on a HB10). Anyway, one thing ugs who are rude help you with is your frame. By not letting their rude behavior phase you, you strengthen your reality.

2.) God, do drunk HBs suck! It's hard to calibrate IOIs and BL. Also, the ADD is almost enough to make me want to walk away from the hottest of drunk HBs

3.) The walk away is a VERY risky move. I wouldn't recommend it in most cases, but last night I could tell the girl was on the fence (I couldn't tell if she was being sarcastic or really buying into my frame) and used the final FTC as a litmus paper test. Also, my wing was getting disrespected by her friends (ignoring him) and it was obvious to both of us. To be honest, a great PU can be tarnished if your wing isn't having fun, too. I usually try and make sure whoever I'm with is having fun and is involved not only because it shows I respect my friends, but also because it generally throws me out of state when one of my friends is watching from the sidelines. So, when I started my spiel about leaving and coming back in an hour, I could tell she was fearing she'd lose me and that spiked her attraction (her whole BL changed and she started directly IOIing me). Even though this place was SWARMED with PUAs (and very sleazy ones...a guy with a stupid fedora and way too peacocked later tried to AMOG my wing in a very disrespectful way), still I was pretty confident her rude friends would keep any intruders at bay. They were all sitting at a private table with bottle service so even getting a good gaming position was like running through Alcatraz (notice in my FR, I was squatting the whole time I was running game on HB10). When I came back the second time, she moved over and made room for me on her couch which put me in a MUCH better lock-in position than running game like I'm Gary fucking Carter squatting.

Although, when it comes down to it, walking away worked in that situation but should be used VERY judiciously, especially with HB10s...

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I finally picked the book up today at Barnes and Noble. Apparently, Judge, you're not the only one who likes Blood Meridian. Mark Bowden begins his book, Black Hawk Down, with the same quote about war that you published a couple weeks ago. I thought that was pretty cool and that I should share.

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